Here is my first link. Please feel free to comment about your thoughts below.
Doug Fields writes about "10 Things Kids Learn From Their Parents' Marriage" at Homeward.com. He says that while he is not always speaking about his marriage, his kids can always learn from what they see. Just as an older gentleman with three boys told me a long time ago. "I always try to follow the speed limit and the posted signs because I have 6 eyes in the back seat watching everything I do." Same is true about your marriage. Check out Doug's list and evaluate how you are doing in your marriage. And, maybe you could add to the list.